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Maintenance Case Part 2
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Yesterday was my 2nd mediation appointment..I reached there 10 minutes earlier.So I register myself, he still have not came.Takpelah belum time pun.After checking my handbag..alamak forgot my bank book so called hubby to come back cos my bankbook is inside the van.When I came out of the building...Terbnampak muka familiar..Huh he came at last..Same again..hari hujan.. So took my bankbook and proceed to 2nd floor.After our names were called..we went to the mediation room for the discussion abaout the money matters..Bebual macam ye-ye...nak step gangster jer..Maintenance is $200 per child.. He says: Gaji saya sekarang $800/mth so saya takde duit nak bayar dia $600/mth.Saya nak turunkan to $300/mth = $100/child. I say: Kalau kau nak bayar aku that amount, aku rasa itu duit kau simpan, kau jagalah anak-anak kau sendiri then kau boleh tau whether that $300/mth for 3 children cukup ke tak... He says: Abeh kau nak aku buat macam mana!!Gaji aku tak cukup,And he told the mediator that he have his own family to support. Well peeps he only have to support his wife and 1 step-dotter as for me my hubby have to support 3 step-sons and 1 of his own son.So I think he's just being selfish just thinking about him only.. Lepas tu nak step gangster...Buat malu budak-budak kau lah A.K. My son says that he worked permanent night shift and morning he drive a passenger van..What do you think of him??Anak tiri lagi penting dari anak sendiri.I don't know what type of father he is..Wat I can say is, biarlah sekarang dia bohong..Allah lebih mengetahui selebihnye..I leave everything to Allah and as for me n hubby...bersabar saja... Outside the judgeroom we quarelled again cos he's not happy that I stopped my son from seeing him.I shout at him back in front of 1 of the policeman..kau asal..aku punya sukalah aku nak kasi anak aku tgk kau..aku yang kasi anak aku makan!! After everything settled, along the way to go out, he told me, "kau nak main game dengan aku kape? I told him "kau punya sukalah nak main game ke ape ke, kau manusia perfect pe takde buat silap.." But if maksud kau main game nak babitkan budak-budak gangster kau and if anything were to happen to me or my hubby..mesti kau punya kerja..kalau kau nak panngil orang pukul aku pun...family aku mesti cari kau!!! Muhammad Akbar Sulaiman @ A.K.. Conclusion: He owes me $6100. 1st payment on 31/03/2009: $300 The balance: $100/mth Inilah balasannnye bila seseorang yang suka swindle duit orang lain..Bila dah kaya, duit da banyak...berfoya-foya dengan perempuan lain..enjoy..so now da jatuh ditimpa tangga pun masih nak step GANGSTER!!lagi ada hati nak berbual pasal TANGGUNGJAWAB!! Brian McKnight Concert!!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Well for peoples who don't know him..It's too bad..Cos he's known as "America's last modern-day soul men".The way he sang all his R & B and soul songs with his warm sentiments and gentle longing as the soul balladeer delivers his slow jams with a smoky sweetness that's altogether seductive. His concert is so excellent!!He brought along both his sons to perform and they too have a GREAT voice!!I really love the way he delivers all his songs.I'm looking forward for his next concert but don't know when..**sigh**2 hrs concert is like 20 minutes..The time really past very fast..I was amazed by the crowd but majority is Blackmen and the Whitemen.Everybody is very supportive till the end of the concert. As for mu Dearest Hubby, thank u for accompanying me no doubt you, yourself don't know him.I really enjoyed myself yesterday..**Big Hugs** Love ya!! Mengeratkan Silaturrahim Bersama Keluarga
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Makan Bersama Sekeluarga Keluarga bahagia ialah keluarga yang dapat mewujudkan tradisi makan bersama-sama sekurang-kurangnya sekali seminggu iaitu pada cuti hujung minggu. Malam adalah waktu yang agak sesuai untuk menghadapi makanan secara bersama keluarga kerana semua ahli keluarga di waktu itu telah selesai menunaikan tanggungjawab masing-masing di dalam bidang pekerjaan dan pelajaran. Makan bersama keluarga boleh mengeratkan lagi rasa kasih sayang antara anggota keluarga. Ibu bapa harus memainkan peranan bagi mewujudkan suasana yang harmoni ketika makan. Inilah di antara kesempatan terbaik untuk ibu bapa berbicara dengan anak-anak dan dapat memberi nasihat, menanam pendidikan dan memupuk kasih sayang dalam keluarga. Sebagai contoh, semasa menghadapi makanan dinasihatkan membaca ‘bismillah’ bagi mendapatkan keberkatan terhadap makanan dan minuman tersebut dan sebagai tanda terima kasih terhadap Allah yang telah memberikan rezeki. Semasa hendak menjamah makanan yang dihidangkan seorang ahli keluarga, bapa atau ibu hendaklah membaca doa ringkas iaitu: Maksudnya: Daripada Abdullah bin Amr, daripada Nabi s.a.w. bahawasanya baginda membaca doa apabila dihidangkan makanan kepada mereka dengan doa yang bermaksud: "Ya Allah berkatilah rezeki yang engkau berikan kepada kami dan jauhkanlah kami daripada azab api neraka, dengan nama Allah". (Riwayat Abu Bakar ibn as-Sunni) Semasa makan bersama keluarga, anak-anak hendaklah diperingatkan supaya tidak memulakan makan atau minum kecuali setelah dimulakan oleh ibu bapa atau orang yang lebih tua. Begitulah juga adab di dalam satu-satu majlis makan yang lain. Ini adalah bertepatan dengan hadith Nabi s.a.w. yang menyebut: Maksudnya: Daripada Huzaifah r.a. katanya: “Apabila kami bersama-sama Rasulullah s.a.w. menghadapi makanan, kami tidak menghulurkan tangan sehingga Baginda memulakan menjamah makanan tersebut terlebih dahulu.” (Riwayat Muslim) Ibu bapa juga adalah bertanggungjawab untuk sentiasa mendisiplinkan anak-anak sewaktu makan dengan tidak banyak bercakap tentang perkara-perkara yang tidak berfaedah, melarang makan di tempat-tempat yang tidak sesuai seperti di ruang tamu, di hadapan TV dan di dalam bilik tidur. Memulakan makanan dari sebelah kanan, makan dengan tidak gelojoh dan lain-lain. Irresponsible Crap!!!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Hi peeps... I took leave yesterday that is 09.03.2009.I have to attend court mediation because my ex-hubby default my children's maintenance.I have compromised with him since may last year..I know abs-con could not get a job easily.So in October when he was released, I gave him ample time to pay wether its full or partial payment.He, himself told me that he would pay end November once he got a job.But when comes to end month, he refused to inform me any news.So I keep quiet and just wait for end December.Still no news.He told me it's not easy when the employer knows you're an ex-convict.So STUPID to inform them!!Of course they will reject your application.So in January he got a job.So I waited till end January...Still no news and don't want to make an effort to inform me wether he still wants to pay or not..If 1 child I don't mind but 3 children!!!So I decided to file a complaint. Date of Mediation: 09.03.2009 Time: 2pm Weather: Raining Heavily Venue: Family Court Mediation Chamber 2nd Level I reached there at 1.51pm.As per normal I have to register at the counter and wait for HIM to come..Waited n waited n waited tilllll 3pm.My number was called and I was given another date and for him, he did not turn up so the court will issue summon to him..After everything settled, I went home. Reached home at 3.30pm playing with my lil Masrizq.My hp rang...Number appeared to be not familiar so I did receive the call.Then my message song beep....Argh..this no again and who the hell is this person?? Message read and received at 3.46pm: Kau btul2 menyusahkan aku.kau tk tau ari ujan ke n kau waste aku nye x pai kau da alik.basah kuyup aku sampai last tkde pape.kau ingat aku takde keje nak buat ehk..! So peeps..am I in the wrong side or HIM? As stated appt is at 2pm and GOD he reached there at 3.46pm..Who the hell he is? VIP? He thought the JUDGE will wait for him?? And another thing...How do I know that yesterday will be a rainy day..I'm not a weather Forecast in charge!!! So I forward the message to my elder sis advise me not to reply his message cause it will make matters worst..So for now wait for the next court date!! Just For You Ma Love..
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Back At One It's undeniable... that we should be together... It's unbelievable how I used to say that I'd fall never The basis you need to know, if you don't know just how I feel, Then let me show you now that I'm for real... If all things in time, time will reveal... Yeah... One... you're like a dream come true... Two... just wanna be with you... Three... girl it's plain to see... that your the only one for me... Four... repeat steps one through three... Five... make you fall in love with me... If ever I believe my work is done... then I start Back at One (yeah) So Incredible... the way things work themselves out... And all emotional, once you know what it's all about babe... And undesirable... for us to be apart... Never would of made it very far... Cause you know you've got the keys to my heart Cause... One... you're like a dream come true Two... just wanna be with you Three... girl it's plain to see... that your the only one for me Four.. .repeat steps one through three Five... make you fall in love with me If ever I believe my work is done... then I start Back at One...... Say farewell to the dark of night... I see the coming of the sun... I feel like a little child... whose life has just begun... You came and breathed new life Into this lonely heart of mine... You threw out the life line... just in the Nick of Tiimmmeeee..... One... you're like a dream come true Two... just wanna be with you Three... girl it's plain to see... that your the only one for me... girl and... Four... repeat steps one through three Five... make you fall in love with me If ever I believe my work is done... then I start Back at One. Wondering......
Hi peeps.... I'm just wondering what happened to all the LADY'S, WOMEN,PEREMPUAN, WANITA etc... I've heard a lot of stories about them...Why they like to follow, pestering or watsoever with other people's HUSBAND!!!!Apa kurang ke LELAKI-LELAKI kat dunia ni?? Please lah...jangan suka MERUNTUHKAN RUMAHTANGGA orang lain...U will have the happiness sementara saja..kalau korang ni perampas-perampas laki orang nak tau..Like my experience...kawan baik sendiri mainkan aku...Dalam diam,kawan aku dengan bekas laki aku senyap-senyap ada affair!!!Patut ke tu???Takpelah aku percaya pada HUKUM KARMA...Lagi kawan aku cakap aku tak tau jaga laki aku....Hmmm...biarlah dia jawab sendiri..kubur dia kan!!! I mean nowadays there's too much of scandalism stories that I've heard and most of it is KAWAN MAKAN KAWAN....dah macam trend pulak ehk..Agaknye dunia nak kiamat agaknye.So to all Peeps..u can trust your husband but not 100% because we don't know wat they did behind us but hopefully wat's happening is all positive.Yang penting is NAWAITU suami kita yg tersirat di hatinye..Keluar bekerja untuk ANAK,ISTERI & KELUARGA...INSYA-ALLAH... Thank you my Love..
Monday, March 2, 2009
I'm very excited and looking forward to my IDOL consert!!! Yes....BRIAN MCKNIGHT.. Actually last saturday I have not got my pay yet.I feel so sad thinking that I won't be able to purchase my Idol's ticket.Luckily my hubby allow me to use his money instead.No doubt he did not know this singer....he still agrees to follow and accompany me to watch this concert..I wanna thank my LOVE for being so understanding and sooo kind to buy me this ticketss!!! I love you so much DEAR...Thank you for everything.. |
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